I think it, in part, comes down to finding the right people to hear your music, instead of pushing your music at everyone and anyone you come into contact with. That often becomes spam.
It also takes being very honest about who we are and what we are about, because connection is partly about identity and values (that is a big part of the appeal of image, the falsehood is where artists and their marketers misrepresent themselves. Of course some, like Alice Cooper or Amy Lee from Evanescence see themselves as an entertainer playing a role, which as ever is entirely up to them.)
As artists, we also have a message, of sorts. Some quite literally. Others it is about clarity of purpose.
Effective and authentic branding and marketing is, for me, about honest identity, values and message.
We’re our own audience because we make it that way. I see this on Social media, especially Twitter, all the time. Independent artists don’t know how to reach out and connect with potential fans. Instead they often start by calling on the help of fellow musicians to get the word out, because they are easy to get on board(ish) (it is often a fickle and flimsy level of support). Because it takes real effort to build a real fanbase, so many opt to fake their following by “I scratch your back, if you scratch my back” cooperation, to make their social following numbers artificially inflated... but these people will rarely if ever listen to your music. It is a like exchange and an entirely false audience. The artist then wonders why their list is so unresponsive, because they confused “easy to build numbers” with “genuine followers”.
Yes, there is an expectation adjustment, but you can build a real fan base, one fan at a time, with no shortcuts.
Often with Indies there is a complete absence of image, no identity, no values and no message. They rely entirely upon the music to make that connection. That’s a very tough call. They forget of all the other stuff that helps get the right people click and listen or watch in the first place. At worst, you don’t want to pre-dispose potential listeners to not like your work, to hear it with an already prejudiced ear.
Awareness can be used to mislead, absolutely, but it doesn’t need to be used in that way. It’s exactly like understanding the meaning of words. They enable detailed communication. In that communication we can choose to speak truth, or lie, reality or fantasy. To learn and use language is not in itself at fault for misunderstanding. The fact that other misuse language intentionally or unintentionally is no real reason not to learn how to communicate, precisely because we can communicate our truth.