Hi P
I have kind of a strange take on this subject that might be ironic in its own way. This would be a story of someone who actually had everything going for him or a certain gift or talent but never got to the top and loathed everyone and everything he thought inferior to his own existence that got ahead of him in life. I think everyone to a point can to relate to that angle...lol Mine being that I think my songs are far better than anything being played on the radio these days...I digress.
Anyways...a person that I know who will remain nameless was a very good guitarist. Even went out to California back in the 80s to see if he could get in with your hair metal bands of the day, kind of a gun for hire. He ended up being a stage guitar tech hand, yep, stringed guitars tested cables etc. Probably thought he was better than the dude who was on stage but never got the chance. He was good, but then again, many good to great guitar players headed out there to do the same thing. His plan of making it big didnt pan out and moved back to the midwest....but I give him credit for trying.
Anyways....years later he still occasionally plays in a bar band and for him that's his spotlight or rose coloured glasses moment. But you know in his voice that he realizes that his time had come and gone.
I asked him why he never gave lessons at the guitar shop. I said, "Wouldn't it be cool if someone you tutored down the road would make it big or semi-big?' And his answer was,"No, I dont want to feed the competition." I was awe struck by his answer. Competition? Who was he competing with? It was funny, though knowing full well he wasnt going anywhere that he still had this territorial aspiration still going on in his mind.
I mean If I had something to do with inspiring another novice artist like myself and they got lucky and got a recording deal, I would at least have the pleasure of telling people I knew so and so when he/she was just starting to write songs.
Again, this guy can play circles around me in guitar playing ability(which isnt hard to do with me..lol) but strangely enough lacked a certain signature style or the ability to be creative in his own right. So, I think the pride angle I was getting at here is irony of being good in your own mind and not being able to see why others dont think so as much. Kinda twilight zone-ish.
just my two cents worth
Beatle Jim