Hi Kel
I guess you'll be having a new appreciation for what it takes to run Songstuff about now
I don't have time to go sort it all out but I would be happy to offer guidance and help you solve individual problems.
Okay, how are you trying to create the website.... empty webspace with a domain pointing to some parked webpage your host created.
Are you using a Content Management System (CMS) like wordpress, drupal or joomla? If not, why not? I am assuming you have php5 or above and mysql in your webspace?
What is your site domain?