I agree! But with alot of interactions in life, I'm not too sure that some kind of a veil isn't or shouldn't be there. For example, I intuitively censor my language.. I would never cuss in front of my parents, grand parents, aunts and uncles, at church, in front of children or older people, a store or restaurant employee, etc. Just never happens. Throughout my business career, the way I would express myself or even reveal aspects of myself is tempered to the people, the situation or the environment.
As you say, they're just people..with any musician or celebrity, I never see them as idols because they aren't to me and I wouldn't want to be an idol either. They're just people that are liked or even loved for what they do or produce. That doesn't mean we can't present ourselves in an honest way. Just use discretion. A private persona and a public persona.
I surely wouldn't want to be seen in a public space online or offline the way I hang at home sometimes 😂😂